The World of Dating and Then Some….

Archive for July 2011

WOW…..That’s how I can sum up the week I just had. Let’s start with Mr. Brooklynite. I know I’ve mentioned him before but I didn’t give him a nickname. Well here it goes…

We’ve been seeing, dating, hanging out whatever the F you want to call it for a couple of months now. I had to get him back on track a few times which should have been a sign for me from the start.  BUT I was becoming emotionally attached to him even though my conscience knew something seemed fishy.  He takes me out for my birthday before hand because he says he won’t be around my actual birthday weekend. VERY SWEET and quite unexpected I thought. So we had a great night and I left the next day unsure when I would see him again. 

A few days later, I’m slacking at work and viewing his page for his gigs. BTW he’s a DJ. I see he has an event planned for the week that he told me he’d be in Florida. I was thinking hmmmm that doesn’t make sense. Soooo being a female, I did my investigating and totally caught him lying to me about being away when he was sleeping in his place every night since with GOD KNOWS who else!!

Mind you, he asked me if I was dating or sleeping with others and I said yes. So why did he feel that he couldn’t tell me the same??? He wanted to have his cake and eat it too but his pea brain thought it would make more sense to LIE to me for 2 weeks then just tell me he was giving his lovin’ to another. 

Well I reeled him in and totally blew up his spot. I told him I was too good for him and to lose my number. I was so proud of myself because if this was 5 years ago, I probably would have forgiven him cause I “liked” him and felt he would realize how fabulous I was!!!  

Yea he’s a fool but karma is a BITCH and will bite him in the ass I’m sure….

BTW, just because I have some meat on my bones DOES NOT mean I want to date a guy that looks like Fat Joe!!! I’m just not attracted to men that waddle when they walk….SORRY!!!!! 




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  • JillyT0125: Good for you!!!! I am not quite sure I know who this old friend is, but there is a reason why you don't talk to him anymore. Old habits are hard to
  • Mairz: Honey, you have to learn to be by yourself and to enjoy being by yourself so that you do not become demanding, needy or bitchy. So stop looking. Find
  • Josh: Hey hun? really? Guy seems like a tool. Move on


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