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Hey all!!!! 

I know it’s been a few months since I’ve posted.

I really thought that when I joined several online dating sites after being off for over 3 years that the men would have their sh*t more together and not be so immature. WELL maybe I’m just attracted the wrong type…or putting up with more bs than I should. You can tell me what you think!

I do know what there is absolutely NO REASON why any “man” should call you any type of name via text. ESPECIALLY since that was the ONLY form of communication we had for the lonnnggg week we spoke. Listen men, I don’t  have the time OR the patience to wait around for you decide if you want to meet or even CALL me! I refuse to invest weeks into a man I haven’t even met via text messages or even phone calls. I don’t do the long distance thang so all these guys are reasonable close where we can absolutely get together for some drinks.

You can have AMAZING text or phone “chemistry” but NOTHING beats the real thing! You have to see if there’s a connection both physically and mentally.

I’ve noticed these nasty comments all came from men who were the jokester, sarcastic, silly type. Listen I can absolutely appreciate and enjoy a great sense of humor and quick wit, but you gotta draw the line somewhere!! If we don’t limit those type of snide remarks and comments, the result will backfire with a nasty arrogant attitude. Hence, what happened with Mr. Texter.  After I told him I was all set and good luck in the future, he replied with calling me ignorant and that he doesn’t need my luck. YEAH YOU NEED A F’N THERAPIST!!!

Feel free to comment and enjoy your New Years Eve! I sure as hell will!!!

*L

Ummm yea so who the hell gave the right to this guy to think he can ask me a million questions about my whereabouts when we went out TWICE?! Apparently this douche does! Hey dude, how about you get your sh”t together and not blow up all my free texts only when you’re drinking telling me you NEED to see me at that very moment?! Just an idea….

I TRIED giving him the benefit of the doubt telling him he could come over the next day but when I asked him to let me know if he’s definitely coming, he tells me he’s going to Virginia! Ok yea I’m ALL SET with that!

Why don’t these guys  delete your number when you  haven’t talked to them in days even weeks?! I know I sure as hell do!! I have a new motto…You need to EARN your way to be saved in my damn phone! So how about you do the same with me and not just hit me up when it’s convenient for you?! THANKS FOR PLAYING!! 🙂

Oh yea remember the guy I told you about in the last blog that said he missed me after telling me he was seeing someone?? Yea he totally texted me with “How are you stranger?” NOOOO NOOO NOOO Leave me the F alone!!!

I really CAN’T make this sh*t up people!

Until next time….

*L

Hey ladies!! I know I haven’t been here for awhile but I’m back in full effect!! The month of August was CRAZY!!! I became a freelance writer for a local newspaper so that has been taking up some of my free time. ..

Anyway, back to the good stuff….my dating life 🙂 

Soooo ever have such a good lay that you just HAVE to go back for more?!! Well I did and am still currently doing that. Gotta love having sex 3 times in a 12 hour span ; ) He’s like my personal sex toy…Can’t hate on that! haha

I met this guy at a shore bar and he asked for my number. We talked for awhile, he was super busy so we only ended up going out twice which is okay cause he turned out to have MAD issues! I have enough of my own issues so I sure as hell DON’T need any of yours!! The title of this blog was said by him after he called me insecure and that he can read me because he has a minor in psychology…hmmm OKAY! Kicked that idiot to the curb…

Then there was a chubby Jewish boy that I was talking too for 3 weeks before we set up a day to get together. Now we texted CONSTANTLY so when I hadn’t heard from him the WHOLE day we were supposed to meet, I assumed he was bailing. When I finally DID get a response, this is what I got “I’ve been f’n busy all day! Don’t you remember that I was in Vegas all last week?!” Ohhh ok a-hole..It would have taken 10 seconds to just text me saying he was busy or ttyl or ANYTHING! Then he continued to say that he wasn’t the one being unreasonable so my response? “I’m all set..take care”. And then he disappeared which is fine by me!!

 

 

::SIGH::

I have some exciting things ahead so there will be more to come soon!! 

 

*L 

 

 



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  • JillyT0125: Good for you!!!! I am not quite sure I know who this old friend is, but there is a reason why you don't talk to him anymore. Old habits are hard to
  • Mairz: Honey, you have to learn to be by yourself and to enjoy being by yourself so that you do not become demanding, needy or bitchy. So stop looking. Find
  • Josh: Hey hun? really? Guy seems like a tool. Move on

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